Dating can be exciting, but it’s important to know what to look for when searching for a healthy, long-term relationship. As your dating and relationship coach, I want to share the first 5 toxic traits that can be red flags when you’re getting to know someone new. 

If you notice any of these early on, it’s a sign to proceed with caution or move on to someone who’s better suited for a loving partnership.

1. Playing the Victim

This person always feels like everything is happening to them, and they rarely take responsibility for their actions. They tend to blame others for their problems, which can make it hard for them to grow and build a strong, healthy relationship. A partner who constantly sees themselves as the victim will struggle to communicate openly and work through challenges together.

2. Taking Everything Personally

Someone who takes everything personally often feels attacked by even the smallest comment. They might react defensively to any feedback, even when you’re coming from a place of care and support. This makes it difficult to have honest conversations and can create a lot of unnecessary conflict.

3. People Pleasing

People pleasers will hide their true feelings, thoughts, and needs to gain approval from others. They may agree to things they don’t want or pretend to be okay with situations just to keep the peace. While it might seem nice at first, this behavior can make it hard to trust their intentions. A strong relationship needs honesty and authenticity from both sides.

4. Entitlement

Entitled individuals feel they deserve special treatment without putting in the effort. They often believe their life should be easy and that they shouldn’t have to work for anything. In a relationship, they may expect you to cater to their needs without reciprocating. Healthy partnerships are built on balance and equality, so entitlement can be a major red flag.

5. Guilt-Tripping

A guilt-tripper uses guilt as a way to manipulate others. They may say things like, “If you really cared about me, you’d do this,” to make you feel obligated to meet their demands. This behavior is toxic because it creates a power imbalance and pressures you into doing things against your will. A healthy partner will communicate their needs without making you feel bad.

Stay tuned for the next article where I’ll share 5 more toxic traits to be aware of when dating. Recognizing these behaviors early can help you protect your heart and set yourself up for a healthy, happy relationship.

Remember, you’re only 1 date away from beginning a relationship.

Love, 

Elizabeth 

P.S. I’d love to know…

Which of these five toxic traits have you experienced in someone you went out with?

Reply to this so that I can help singles like you when you encounter these red flags  

Warmly,
Elizabeth