Just because you haven’t had luck with online dating in the past, doesn’t mean you have to give it up altogether. Online dating can feel overwhelming: choosing the right app, picking photos you love, and answering all those questions can make it feel like a chore.

But here’s the good news: there are millions of singles out there looking for connection, just like you! 

The key to creating a great profile? Knowing how to show the best version of yourself. While it’s important to share your personality, hobbies, and values, it’s also important to avoid words or phrases that might send the wrong message. 

Here are 4 common mistakes to avoid—and what to do instead!

1. “Emotionally Available”

This phrase might sound nice, but it can actually be a turn-off. Emotional availability is something everyone looks for in a partner, so calling it out can feel unnecessary or even negative—like you assume others don’t have feelings. Instead, show your emotional depth by talking about things that matter to you or qualities you value, like kindness or honesty.

2. “I Love to Travel”

Almost everyone loves to travel, so saying this doesn’t stand out. Instead, share something specific. Write about your favorite place you’ve been to, what made it special, or an activity you enjoyed there. The same goes for hobbies like reading or watching movies—mention a favorite book, author, or film to give people a better idea of who you are.

3. Negative Words (like “Hate”)

Nobody wants to read a profile full of negativity. If you write about things you dislike or complain about online dating, it can make you seem unhappy or frustrated. Focus on what you enjoy instead! What makes you excited? What are you passionate about? Staying positive helps people see the best version of you.

4. Slang or Abbreviations (like “LOL”)

While it’s okay to use slang or abbreviations once you’re chatting, they don’t belong in your profile. They can make you seem lazy or immature. Think of your profile like a first impression—you want to come across as thoughtful and confident. Write full sentences and skip the text-speak!

A Few Final Tips

Avoiding these common mistakes can make a big difference in how people see you online. But don’t forget the basics:

• Fill out all the sections in your profile. Blank spaces make it seem like you aren’t serious.

• Add at least five photos that show off your personality.

• Use the app’s filters to find people who share your interests and values.

• Don’t be afraid to swipe right or send the first message!

Online dating doesn’t have to feel scary or stressful. Focus on showing your authentic self, staying positive, and having fun—and you’ll attract the kind of connection you’re looking for!

Remember, 

You’re only one date away from a relationship,

Xx,

Elizabeth