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My journey wasn't so smooth. I had so many ups and downs, epic fails and I'm grateful for all of those experiences.

Dating and relationships aren't things you just know. It's something you master over the years. You might learn from reading a book or watching a video. But hey, this isn't a rom com movie.

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Being nice may be costing you love

Being nice may be costing you love

May 21, 20261 min read

Can I say something that might sting a little?

Being nice may be part of the reason dating hasn’t worked.

Not because kindness is unattractive.

Not because being thoughtful is wrong.

But because many women were taught that being a “good woman” means being endlessly understanding.

Flexible.

Patient.

Accommodating.

Low maintenance.

Forgiving.

Easy to be with.

And if that’s been your dating strategy…

how’s that working out?

Because I meet incredible women all the time who are emotionally intelligent, generous, accomplished, and genuinely kind…

yet keep ending up in confusing, disappointing, emotionally draining dating situations.

Why?

Because being kind and abandoning yourself are not the same thing.

But many women were never taught the difference.

So instead, you explain away red flags.

You rationalize inconsistency.

You give second chances that were never earned.

You tell yourself to be more understanding when your gut already knows something is off.

And meanwhile?

Emotionally healthy men are not looking for women with no boundaries.

They’re looking for women who respect themselves.

That distinction changes everything.

I recorded a video about this exact pattern because I see it constantly.

It’s called: The Nice Girl Is Why You’re Single.


Watch it here:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Gjdg9DGNV5O5vHSolog8aguXtokp5xjj/view?usp=sharing

If you’ve ever wondered why being “such a good woman” hasn’t led to the love you want…

this one’s for you.

Hugs,
Elizabeth

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Elizabeth Tritsch

Dating & Attraction Expert, Flirt Instructor, Certified Dating & Relationship Coach.

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