Hey there,

What would it be like to log onto a dating app and have men or women instantly drawn to you?

Who wants that? Let me hear you say, “I do!”

There’s a well kept secret that can have you stand out above all the others and will have potential dates instantly attracted to you.

Are you ready for it? Let me, here you say, “Yes, I’m ready!”

I’m sure you know that you only have 3 secs to make an impression on a dating app. So, it’s important that you make a good impression before the viewer swipes. 

One way to do this is by choosing the right pics. Selecting the right pics can make or break the outcome. No one is going to read your bio if your pic doesn’t grab their attention (in the first 3 seconds).

When choosing your profile pics, be sure you have good lighting and you can be clearly seen. Don’t have pics of you wearing a hat or sunglasses. They want to see YOU.

Get rid of any pics with friends or family members. They’re wanting to date You - not anyone else. What happens if there’s a person in your pic who’s more or less attractive than you? Do you want them to want your friend or swipe left because there’s something about your friend they don’t like? Let’s keep them focused on you, okay?

Consider your surroundings. Is there anything that shouldn’t be in the pic? Maybe laundry that needs to be put away? An overflowing trash can or a pile of papers on the table? Choose surroundings that are positive, happy and upbeat with great lighting.

Now this tip is the most important so if you got this far, this is for you.

Choose your outfit based on colors that attract. Did you know that men are more likely to swipe right on you if you’re wearing RED?

There was a 9 - month study done with 64 women who put out ads. The ads had the same background, same wording and the women were of the same age and had the same hair color. The only difference was every 2 weeks, the women wore different colored shirts (black, white, blue, yellow, green or red).

When they wore shirts that were black, white, blue, yellow or green. They received 14% of messages. But, when they wore red shirts, they received an increase to 21% of messages. These women stood out because they wore red which signifies love, sex and attraction. They gained more attention and had more men reaching out to them. And, isn’t that what you want?

Did you know that wearing green shows you’re relaxed, care about nature and the environment?

And wearing black, gray and blue signifies power?

If you identify as male, choose clothes in black, gray or blue to show your assertiveness and strength.

For women, select red or pink to attract someone’s attention. Blue works well too. 

Women, if you want to show that you're powerful, opt for black or gray but know that most men prefer to see your soft, feminine side when it comes to dating. They don’t mind that you’re smart and strong, many prefer it. But, let them know you’re in touch with your femininity and think twice before wearing gray or black.

Avoid brown and purple if you're female and avoid brown and orange if you're male.

To sum it up, choose red, pink, blue or green for my female friends.

Wear blue, green, black or gray for my male buddies.

Also, women are telling me they’re consistently swiping left on men holding fishes or guns. They know you can protect them but are interested in your nurturing side, as well.

Hope that helps.

XO, Elizabeth (Your Wingwoman in Love & Life)

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