Do you ever break out in a sweat just thinking about approaching someone you don’t know?

Do you ever feel so nervous talking to people that you’d rather run and hide?

Is it 10 x worse when it’s someone you’re interested in?

Yeah, that was me too.

Today, I’d like to share some tips to make approaching people you don’t know easier than you ever thought possible.

If you're trying to be more confident when meeting new people and don’t know what to do first - 

Here’s where you should start.

Begin by talking to people online.

Think about it. 

When you chat with people online, you can take your time to think about what you want to say. 

Until you send your message, you have control. 

This makes it less scary and helps you get used to starting conversations.

To get better at talking to new people, you have to:

talk…

talk…

talk…

It’s all about the practice. You have to get your reps in.

After a while, it’ll become so easy. You’ll be miles away from where you started and you’ll feel more confident talking to new people.

Now, if you're super nervous, like I was, let me help. 

Did you know that when I first started talking to people, I couldn’t even look them in the eye? 

In fact, I was so afraid that I looked down or away instead.

Don’t feel like you’re the only one. 

Even some of the most friendly people had to learn how to be confident talking to strangers!

Here’s a trick I learned from my coach that changed the game for me. And it’s so simple.

I pretended that everyone I talked to was a friend I just hadn’t met yet. This made it feel like just another friendly chat.

Once I stopped worrying about me, I began to focus on the other person and what they were saying.

This trick took away 

all my anxiety 

all the nervousness

and I started relaxing and enjoying the conversation. 

It was as if something shifted and I got out of my head and was able to be 100% present.

If you start by talking to people online and use tricks like I did, guess what? 

YOU can become confident talking to new people! And who knows where it will lead?

A partner?

A relationship?

A friendship?

And, remember, 

You’re only one date away from something amazing…

Your wingwoman, in love and in life,

XO Elizabeth

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