If you want to turn heads and effortlessly invite connection when you’re out and about, keep reading—I’ve got the secrets to becoming magnetic in any setting.

Being approachable isn’t just about looking good; it’s about exuding an energy that makes others want to get to know you. The kind of vibe that says, “I’m confident, open, and ready to connect.”

Quick Quiz: Which of these pics (1-10) shows an approachable vs less approachable person? The answers are at the bottom & might surprise you.

Here’s how to cultivate that irresistible energy:

1. Flash a Smile That Stops Them in Their Tracks

There’s nothing more inviting than a warm, genuine smile. Think about it—when someone smiles at you, don’t you immediately feel more drawn to them? Practice smiling whenever you walk into a room or make eye contact. It’s simple, sexy, and incredibly effective.

2. Ditch the Phone, Own the Room

Nothing kills an approachable vibe faster than being glued to your phone. Instead, be fully present. Look around, notice your surroundings, and allow yourself to enjoy the moment. That confident, engaged energy is magnetic.

3. Let Your Body Do the Talking

Open body language is key to signaling your availability. Uncross your arms, relax your shoulders, and make a habit of turning toward the room or the people nearby. Subtle shifts like these make you appear inviting and confident.

4. Compliment Like a Pro

A well-placed compliment is an instant icebreaker. Notice something intriguing about someone—a unique piece of jewelry, a striking outfit, or even their energy—and let them know. People are drawn to those who make them feel good.

5. The Eyes Have It

Never underestimate the power of eye contact. A lingering glance paired with a small smile can spark curiosity and intrigue. It’s a bold move that says, “I see you, and I’m open to connecting.”

6. Be in the Right Places

Want to meet people who excite and inspire you? Spend time in spaces that align with your passions. Whether it’s a chic wine bar, a vibrant art gallery, or a fitness class, being in your element naturally boosts your confidence and approachability.

7. Make the First Move

Who says you have to wait to be approached? Confidence is sexy, and taking the initiative to say hello or ask a question shows that you’re not afraid to go after what you want.

Ready to Step Into Your Magnetic Energy?

Now that you’ve got the tools to become irresistibly approachable, it’s time to put them into action. 

Join me for “From Single to Partnered,” a flirty and fun virtual party happening on Thursday, January 30, at 4 PM PST/ 7 PM EST.

Click here to join me for “From Single to Partnered”! 

Don’t wait—It’s free but space is limited! 

This isn’t your average event—it’s a space where you’ll learn how to magnetize your ideal match and create meaningful connections. You’ll leave feeling empowered, confident, and ready to attract the love you deserve.

You won’t want to miss this opportunity to take a step closer to the loving, connected relationship you’ve been dreaming of.

Because when you radiate confidence and approachability, the right people won’t be able to resist. Let’s make it happen together!!!

Click here to join me for “From Single to Partnered”—I can’t wait to see you there!

Answers to the quiz:

Approachable: 4, 6, 8,9,10 - All are smiling & have completely open body language which will make it easier to be approached.

Not Approachable: 1,2,3,5,7 - Even though many are smiling or laughing, please know that if your legs are crossed (1), your arm is blocking your body (2), your hands are in your pockets (3) or arms are crossed against chest (5), or both your legs & arms are crossed (10), you’re giving off signals that you’re not 100% open.

Remember, you’re only one date away from your next relationship!

Xx Elizabeth

P.S. Be sure to Click here to sign up quickly for “From Single to Partnered”, Thurs. Jan 30 at 4 PM PST/ 7 PM EST.