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You can defy gravity in love

You can defy gravity in love

December 12, 20242 min read

Did you know that the stories we tell ourselves about love can hold us back—but with the right help, you have the power to rewrite them?

I was recently reminded of this while watching Wicked. In one powerful scene, Elphaba shares a painful secret with Glinda: she believes it’s her fault her sister is in a wheelchair. 

Glinda gently responds:

Just because it’s your secret doesn’t make it true.”

That one line hit me hard. Elphaba had carried shame for years, but by speaking her secret out loud, she began to let go of the guilt and reclaim her power.

It made me think about how shame and old stories often keep us from finding love. Maybe you’ve told yourself:

• “I’m not good enough.”

• “All the good ones are taken.”

• “I’ve messed up too many times.”

But here’s the truth: Shame isolates us and makes us feel unworthy of love. It’s time to let those stories go.

Here’s how you can start rewriting your love story today:

1. Name your “secrets.”

Take a moment to reflect. What beliefs about yourself are you holding onto? Write them down or say them out loud to yourself.

2. Challenge those “truths.”

Ask yourself:

• Where did this belief come from?

• Is it actually true, or is it just an old story I’ve been repeating?

• How can I reframe it to support the love I deserve?

3. Share your truth in safe spaces.

Shame dissolves when we bring it into the light. Share your thoughts with someone who listens with empathy—a trusted friend, therapist, or coach (like me!).

When you let go of shame and step into your authentic self, everything changes. You become magnetic to the kind of love you’ve been dreaming about.

Remember, finding love isn’t just about meeting the right person—it’s about becoming the version of you who’s ready to give and receive that love.

Because yes, you can defy gravity in love.

Want help letting go of those old stories and creating the love life you deserve?

Click here to sign up for the upcoming masterclass and learn how to rewrite your story and attract the relationship you’ve been waiting for.

Remember, you’re only 1 date away from love.

With love and belief in you,

Xx Elizabeth

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Elizabeth Tritsch

Dating & Attraction Expert, Flirt Instructor, Certified Dating & Relationship Coach.

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