If you’ve ever found yourself giving too much in dating, you’re not alone. I see it all the time with my clients—and it’s often the very reason they stay stuck in the wrong relationships (or out of one entirely).

Here are 5 things you should never do for a partner if you want real love that lasts:

1. Never abandon your boundaries.

Your boundaries are your foundation. If someone truly respects you, they’ll respect them too.

2. Never make your partner your whole life.

Dropping your friendships, passions, and independence doesn’t create closeness—it kills attraction.

3. Never overinvest too soon.

If you’re doing all the planning, paying, and pursuing, you’ll eventually burn out. Healthy love is balanced.

4. Never chase when they pull away.

Chasing usually drives them further. Instead, hold steady and watch how they handle space.

5. Never try to fix or “upgrade” them.

Date the person in front of you, not their potential. If they’re not aligned, let them go and make room for the right one.

The truth is—most singles fall into at least one of these traps. And that’s what keeps them spinning their wheels.

So here’s my question for you:

Which one of these do you catch yourself doing most? Hit reply and tell me—I’d love to know.

And if you’re ready to stop repeating these patterns and finally create momentum in your love life, join me in the 17-Day Dating Sprint. Each day you’ll take small, powerful actions that move you out of old habits and into connection.

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Do it today before the investment increases.

Remember, you’re only one date away from a loving relationship.

Xx,

Elizabeth

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