In my last article, I covered the first 5 toxic traits to watch for when dating. Now, let’s dive into five more behaviors that can be signs of an unhealthy relationship. Being aware of these traits can help you spot red flags early, so you can avoid unhealthy dynamics and find the love you deserve.

6. Creating Drama

Some people love to stir up drama and gossip, often seeking attention or excitement. If someone thrives on conflict and constantly creates chaos, it’s hard to build a peaceful and stable relationship with them. Drama can be draining, and a healthy partner will seek to create harmony, not chaos.

7. Holding Grudges

If someone can’t forgive or let go of past mistakes, it can create tension in a relationship. They may bring up old issues or keep score of things that happened long ago, making it difficult to move forward. Healthy relationships require forgiveness and a willingness to grow together.

8. Boundary Violating

Boundaries are essential for any healthy relationship. If someone repeatedly crosses your boundaries and pressures you into situations you’re uncomfortable with, they are not respecting you. It’s important to feel safe and respected, and a person who ignores your boundaries is showing a major red flag.

9. Passive Aggressiveness

Instead of talking about issues directly, passive-aggressive individuals use subtle actions like giving the silent treatment or making sarcastic comments. This behavior prevents open communication and makes it hard to address problems. A strong relationship needs honesty and direct communication to grow and thrive.

10. Martyrdom

Martyrs try to gain approval or sympathy by making sacrifices or acting as if they need to ‘save’ others, even when it’s not necessary. This behavior creates an unbalanced dynamic and can be overwhelming. In a healthy relationship, both partners support each other equally, without one person constantly taking on the role of the ‘rescuer.’

By recognizing these toxic traits, you can better protect your heart and build a relationship that feels balanced, safe, and supportive. You deserve someone who values open communication, respects your boundaries, and is ready for a healthy, long-term connection.

Remember, you’re only 1 date away from the beginning of a committed relationship. 

Love, 

Elizabeth 

P.S. I'd love to know… 

Which of these last 5 toxic traits have you experienced in someone you dated?