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My dating journey was just like yours
My journey wasn't so smooth. I had so many ups and downs, epic fails and I'm grateful for all of those experiences.
Dating and relationships aren't things you just know. It's something you master over the years. You might learn from reading a book or watching a video. But hey, this isn't a rom com movie.
It's about your life, it's about taking responsibility for yourself and getting what you want. Yes, there's a lot to know, and some of it might feel challenging but, I'm here with you every step of the way.
I went through all kinds of setbacks, but also a lot of good moments. I learned how to embrace both the good and bad times and I survived, meeting an amazing man and living a happy and meaningful life.
If you're interested in finding your love, or you need help making your existing love life even better, then let's talk. I’m Elizabeth Tritsch, a Science- based, certified Dating & Relationship coach and Matchmaker.
My specialties: how to find your ideal person, connect quickly and easily, ask the right questions to know if someone’s right for you, and enjoy dating all the way into a committed relationship — using my Magnetic Match Framework. It works whether you’re on the apps or meeting in real life.
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Stop fixing his problems
Benjamin Franklin had a rival who disliked him. He didn't do the man a favor to win him over instead, he did something better. He asked the man for one. He borrowed a rare book. The man felt flattered and after that, they were friends.
Franklin found something most of us get backwards. We think if we give enough, if we do enough, he'll love us for it. It's actually the other way around. The person who does the favor is the one who gets attached.
Here's why.
Your brain doesn't like doing things it can't explain. So when you go out of your way for a man, part of you decidesyoumust care about him. The giving comes first. The feeling follows.
So the woman who gives and gives is talking herself into him. And he sits back and takes it, feeling nothing, because he hasn't lifted a finger.
I see this all the time. Smart, capable women who handle everything.
They track his moods. They fix his problems before he even feels them. They think that's love. Then they wonder why they feel so unsure.
They feel unsure because they are. Every problem you solve for him is one he never had to rise to. You're not building his attachment. You're building your own.
The fix is simple.
Stop doing it all. Let himgiveto you. A man gets attached to a woman he invests in, for the same reason you do.
So let him.
This is one rule that's easy to understand and challenging to do. There are many things that work. Knowing them isn't the same as living them. That's the work I built the Art of Dating Academy to do.
It's 8 weeks, for women over forty who are done dating by accident.
The founding rate is $2,497,open through July 21. (The earlier you sign up, the more summer coaching calls you get.)
We start September 15.
Here's the link,
https://daretodatedifferently.com/the-art-of-dating-academy-payment-page
After the founding group fills, that price is gone.
You read this far. You saw yourself. That's where it starts.
If you need more info about ADA, you'll find it on my website under Work With Me,https://daretodatedifferently.com/work-with-me
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