My journey was not so smooth. I had so many ups and downs and I'm grateful for all of those experiences. Dating and relationships aren't things you just know. It's something you master over the years. You might learn from reading a book or watching a video. But hey, it's not a rom com movie. It's about your life, about taking responsibility for yourself and getting what you want. It's a lot of stuff, and some of its quite difficult. I went through all kinds of setbacks, but also a lot of good moments. I learned how to embrace both the good and bad times and survived, living a happy and meaningful life. If you're interested in finding your love, or you need help to make your existing love life even better, then, contact me. I’m Elizabeth Tritsch, a Science- based, certified Dating & Relationship coach and Matchmaker.
I'm called the Mistress of Manifesting because I manifested love into my life. I'm like Will Smith in the movie, Hitch, but I’m real. My specialties include how to create a profile that attracts, how to enjoy dating while choosing wisely and how to create a loving, connected relationship.
Let’s get real for a second…
Rejection stings.
Whether it’s a message left on “read,” a date that doesn’t lead to a second, or someone you liked who just didn’t feel the same.
And when it happens again and again, it’s easy to think: “Maybe I’m just not cut out for this.”
But here’s the truth:
Rejection doesn’t kill your confidence. Avoiding it does.
Because the more you tiptoe around dating—trying not to get hurt, not to embarrass yourself, not to look “too eager”—the smaller your world becomes.
And small isn’t sexy.
Confidence isn’t something you wait for. It’s something you build—by doing things that stretch you.
One of my favorite dating experts I saw last month at the 2025 NY Global Love Conference, The Date Maven, says:
“Doing something physically challenging can be a big confidence booster – for both men and women! For me, it might be zip-lining. For another person, it might be doing an obstacle course race. For yet another person, it might be learning the cha-cha or going to a bar by yourself! (If that makes you physically uncomfortable, it counts as physically challenging!)”
I love that!
Because confidence isn’t just about how you look or what you say on a date.
It’s about how much discomfort you can hold without losing yourself.
That’s why one of my clients walked into a wine bar solo, ordered her favorite pinot grigio, and said afterward, “I felt like such a badass.”
Another took up salsa dancing—and he told me that just showing up changed how he felt in every area of life.
So if you’ve been shrinking or second-guessing lately…
What’s one thing you could do this week to stretch your comfort zone?
Not for anyone else. Just for you.
To prove to yourself: I can do hard things. I can feel uncomfortable and still be powerful. I can handle rejection—and keep showing up with my whole heart.
And that kind of confidence?
It’s magnetic.
Let’s stop letting fear run your love life.
You’ve got this.
And I’ve got you.
Xx
Elizabeth
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