Hey!

Are you married to celebrating holidays (and even birthdays) on their designated day?

I'm asking, because I've postponed the day my partner & I are unwrapping gifts and have even postponed New Years eve, too. 

You see, I was a bit lax in ordering gifts and the gifts won't be arriving until today.

So, we're going to be celebrating this weekend.

With New Year's, well my partner was working New Year's Day so we had caviar and blinis Tuesday evening and watched my favorite movie, Auntie Mame (the one with Rosalind Russell). I strongly recommend it as it's made the biggest impact in my life.

We did celebrate our first holiday with surf and turf on Dec 24th. (Stick around and see what I succeeded at earlier in the day.)

What about you?

Would you be opposed to celebrating a holiday on an alternative day or does it have to be on the scheduled calendar day?

Here's the real questions so, answer honestly. I'd love to know which side of the fence your'e on so, reply with your answers and I'll gift you something special.

Could you be flexible if your partner was working/ busy/ out of town on a holiday or are you grounded in on it having to be on that particular day?

Would you be open to being in a relationship with someone who gets you and you him regardless of how it looks (to others) because you believe in it and it makes you happier than being on your on?

Would you go out with someone who interests you but doesn't check all of the boxes on your list?

If you answered, yes, congratulations! You're far more likely to meet someone. begin dating and start a wonderful long term relationship in 2024.

If you said, no, to any of the questions you're not ready for a relationship and you're most likely doing everything you can to prevent yourself from even entertaining the idea.

There's no judgement from me.

You can still go out, flirt and go on a couple of dates if you're willing to stop standing in your own way.

Sure, that sounds harsh. It's meant to. I'm not here to sugarcoat what you probably already know. 

Part of you wants to be in a relationship and part of you doesn't. We've all been there.

The part of you that does is because of external factors. It could be that all of your friends are in relationships, your family keeps bugging you about when you're going to settle down, you're tired of being alone or not having a plus one at dinners, parties and weddings, etc and so many other outside influences.

But, inside, deep down, inside you don't want to be in a relationship.

And, that's okay.

We all move through life at different speeds.

We want things and don't want things at different times.

There's no Relationship Cop who's going to tell you after looking at their watch, that now's the time so you better get moving.

This year, is your year. And, yours alone. You get to decide what's right for you.

It could be hanging out at home, with friends, your family or focused on your career and enjoying being single or busy.

It could be slowly dipping your toe into dating, trying a dating app, flirting with people in person or on line, being set up on blind dates, or going speed dating.

Or, it could be that you feel you're ready for a relationship. You're completely healed from your last relationship, you're loving your life and you're ready to share it with someone else.

These are all wonderful choices for you.

For 2024, you be you and have the most magnificent time doing you no matter what you choose.

And, if you change your mind next week, in a month or at the end of the year - that's okay too.

What's most important is that you and you alone gets to decide how you live your life.

You only get one life so, do it the way you want and ignore everyone else.

And, I'll be here supporting you 100% of the way.

Now, if you are ready for a relationship or want to be better at attracting and dating, I have an upcoming free Masterclass that I'd like to invite you to.

In order to get on the waitlist, please click this link and add your name.

Have a wonderful 2024 being you, amazing you.

XO,

Elizabeth (Your Wingwoman in Love & Life)

Elizabeth Tritsch
Science Based Certified Dating & Relationship Coach, Dare To Date Differently

Phone 813-400-0006

Website www.daretodatedifferently.com

P.S. Click here for the link to be added to the free Dating Masterclass.

P.S.S.
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