Some people say that single women and men who really want to find love are special, and in many ways, I think that’s true.

After years of helping singles begin a loving, committed relationship, I’ve noticed one big difference between those who find their perfect match and those who don’t. This difference has a lot to do with how happy and successful they are with dating.

It all comes down to how you think, and the good news is, anyone can develop this mindset.

You have a choice.

Singles who find lasting love look at every dating experience in one of two ways: 

Either they see it as a win, or they see it as a chance to learn. 

If a date goes well, they’re happy because it met or even exceeded their expectations. But if it doesn’t go as planned, they don’t get too upset. 

Instead, they see it as a way to learn something new.

These singles don’t see a bad date as a failure. They see it as an opportunity to learn, and often, the lessons they learn from a bad date are more valuable than what they get from a good one. In fact, many have their biggest “aha” moments after a date that didn’t go well.

These breakthroughs happen because of the strong feelings we get when something unexpected happens in dating. You might feel sad, disappointed, or surprised, and those emotions are powerful and need to be honored.

But if you haven’t trained your mind to see a setback as a chance to learn, those negative feelings can bring you down and make you lose confidence.

Want to transform your dating experience?

In my coaching, I teach women and heart centered men to use a simple tool called the Experience Transformer. This tool helps them learn from both good and bad dating experiences so they can do more of what works and avoid what doesn’t.

For example, after a date that didn’t go well, take some time to think about what went right (because there’s always something good) and what didn’t.

Then, think about how you would handle a similar situation differently next time. The ideas you come up with will help you avoid making the same mistakes and give you the confidence to try again.

Remember: You’re only 1 date away from beginning a loving relationship.

Much love,

Xx Elizabeth

P.S. The Dating Experiment is underway. I’m looking for 100 single women to join me on FB as a Founding Member and have 70 spots left. I created the Dating Experiment to help you experiment dating at a higher level so that you can go from single and alone to partnered and in love within a happy, committed relationship. There will be Live meetings over Zoom for you to get your questions answered and you'll learn strategies to move you forward to getting what you want. Take advantage of this now as I won't be offering this free again.

Want to join? 

Click here for the link and be sure to answer all of the questions and agree to the group rules. Looking forward to getting to know you better and helping you attract your ideal match, connect with him and begin a loving LTR.