Did you know that people form an impression of you within seconds of seeing your profile? 

It's true! 

Just like public speaking, your online dating presence is all about making a strong first impression. 

Let me share three common mistakes that can sabotage your chances on dating apps—and how to avoid them to attract the right partner.

NUMBER 1:

Bad profiles jump right into talking about themselves without a captivating opener.

Think of your profile as your stage entrance. Don’t rush into listing facts about yourself. 

Instead, start with something that grabs attention—a witty line, a playful question, or a unique detail that makes someone want to know more. 

This initial hook is like that strategic pause on stage; 

it draws them in and sets the tone for a more meaningful connection.

NUMBER 2:

Bad profiles give off a vibe of desperation or impatience.

Relax, and remember that finding the right partner is a journey, not a race. 

Avoid sounding like you’re in a rush to find “the one” or that you’re frustrated with the process. 

Instead, convey a sense of confidence and ease. 

Show that you’re enjoying life and looking for someone to share it with, rather than someone to complete it.

NUMBER 3:

Bad profiles focus on the negatives or mention past relationship failures.

It’s tempting to be upfront about what you don’t want, or to mention past disappointments, but this can come across as baggage. 

Instead, focus on the positive. Highlight what excites you, what you’re passionate about, and what you’re looking forward to in a relationship. 

Let your profile reflect the best version of you—someone who’s optimistic and ready for something new and exciting.

If you avoid these 3 mistakes, your dating profile will stand out as attractive, confident, and genuine. 

And,

that’s the kind of energy that draws in the right partner.

Remember: You’re only 1 date away from beginning a loving relationship.

Much love,

Xx Elizabeth

P.S. The Dating Experiment is underway. I’m looking for 100 single women to join me on FB as a Founding Member. I created the Dating Experiment to help you experiment dating at a higher level so that you can go from single and alone to partnered and in love within a happy, committed relationship.

Want to join? Click here for the link and be sure to answer all of the questions. I’m only accepting 100 single women for this. Looking forward to getting to know you better.