Now that we’ve covered the top 10 toxic traits to watch out for when dating, Here’s tips on how you can identify these behaviors early and keep yourself safe from unhealthy relationships. By paying attention, you can build confidence as you navigate the dating world and attract someone who’s ready for a healthy, long-term partnership.

1. Pay Attention to Patterns

When you’re getting to know someone, notice how they react to challenges or conflicts. Do they own up to their actions, or do they always blame others? If you notice a pattern of them playing the victim, that’s a red flag. Healthy partners take responsibility for their behavior.

2. Test Boundaries Early

Setting boundaries is a great way to see if someone respects your needs and feelings. If they keep pushing or ignoring your boundaries, it’s a sign they may not honor your feelings in the long run. The right partner will listen and adjust, showing they respect you.

3. Watch for Consistency

People pleasers often say what they think you want to hear, which can make it hard to trust them. Pay attention to whether their actions match their words. Consistency is key in building trust and feeling secure with someone new.

4. Don’t Ignore Your Intuition

If something doesn’t feel right, listen to that feeling. Your intuition is a powerful tool in spotting behaviors like passive-aggressiveness, drama, or guilt-tripping. Trust yourself if things seem off; it’s your mind’s way of protecting you.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where I’ll share 4 more ways to spot toxic traits and protect yourself from unhealthy relationships. Recognizing these signs early will help you build the strong, loving connection you deserve.

Remember, you’re only 1 day away from the beginning of a relationship. 

If you missed the first top 10 toxic traits, you can find them by CLICKING HERE.