My journey was not so smooth. I had so many ups and downs and I'm grateful for all of those experiences. Dating and relationships aren't things you just know. It's something you master over the years. You might learn from reading a book or watching a video. But hey, it's not a rom com movie. It's about your life, about taking responsibility for yourself and getting what you want. It's a lot of stuff, and some of its quite difficult. I went through all kinds of setbacks, but also a lot of good moments. I learned how to embrace both the good and bad times and survived, living a happy and meaningful life. If you're interested in finding your love, or you need help to make your existing love life even better, then, contact me. I’m Elizabeth Tritsch, a Science- based, certified Dating & Relationship coach and Matchmaker.
I'm called the Mistress of Manifesting because I manifested love into my life. I'm like Will Smith in the movie, Hitch, but I’m real. My specialties include how to create a profile that attracts, how to enjoy dating while choosing wisely and how to create a loving, connected relationship.
Meet Sarah again—but this time, things are different. (If you missed last week's article, you can click here to catch up.)
Sarah is still independent. She’s still ambitious, still confident, and still capable of handling her life. But now, she’s also open to connection, support, and partnership.
She no longer feels like she has to prove she can do everything alone. When a man offers to help her carry something heavy, she lets him. When she’s feeling stressed, she shares her thoughts instead of bottling them up. And when she’s on a date, she lets herself enjoy being taken care of without guilt or resistance.
And the best part? She’s attracting better-quality men—ones who appreciate her strength but also love that she’s open to partnership.
The Key to Healthy Independence in Dating
Unlike hyper-independence, healthy independence allows room for love, support, and emotional connection.
Here’s what it looks like:
Being confident on your own while also welcoming support from a partner
Letting yourself receive care and kindness without guilt
Knowing that needing connection doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you’re human
Understanding that love is about choosing to rely on each other, not because you have to, but because you want to
Sarah didn’t lose herself by letting love in—she gained a relationship that made her life even richer.
How to Start Practicing Healthy Independence in Love
Say YES to support. Let a man do something thoughtful for you—without resisting it.
Be open to emotional connection. Share your thoughts and feelings instead of keeping them locked away.
Remind yourself: Accepting love doesn’t mean giving up your power—it means expanding it.
The right partner won’t take away your independence. He’ll cherish it—while also being the safe, loving support system you deserve.
Are you ready to attract love without losing yourself? Start practicing healthy independence today, and watch how love flows into your life effortlessly.
If you want to attract men who appreciate your strength and vulnerability like Sarah, sign up for my next workshop in March by clicking here.
Remember, you're only one date away from a LTR
Xx, Elizabeth
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